What makes a high class Escort successful in London? There seems to be a special formula that is difficult to determine. Some women do fine in the industry, but they never make it to Escort super stardom like they hope. Others seem to rise effortlessly, moving from casual dates to high profile ones that take them into the very highest tiers of society. There is no one way to figure out who is going to be the most successful, and who won’t be. But there are three ways one can consider.
1. Elite London Escorts Are Genuinely Warm
No one wants to spend time with someone who lacks sincerity, any more than they want to spend time with someone who doesn’t seem like they want to be there. Put these two together, and the client is going to have a bad time. Which means no repeat business and the Escort not being very successful with agencies. The client must feel comfortable, liked and be attended to. This makes for a successful date.
The most successful elite Escorts are very warm and inviting. They smile, show a sense of humor and rely on their dynamic personality to keep the client coming back. At Park Lane Girls agency they list such successful girls in their gallery page http://www.parklanegirls.com/gallery/all-escorts: checking them out will leave no doubts.
2. London VIP Escorts Are Sensual Without Trying
Escorts have to build an image, and being sensual is a big part of this. Trying too hard, however, ruins the effect. And it might come off as being nervous or aggressive. The Escort is there to be seductive and gentle; someone for the client to enjoy their time with. The Escort companion has to show a discretion that will be reflected within the agency.
3. High Class Escorts of London Build Relationships
This is probably the most important secret for an Escort. A successful career is hard to sustain by continuously finding new clients. Repeat business is the best business! That means offering the client a sense of fondness, stability and devotion. In short, the Escort is building relationships that will last as long as possible. Connecting with clients and having a strong compatibility with them makes everything much easier.
These three approaches will contribute considerably to becoming a successful Escort. For those who are thinking of hiring a high class Escort, these three things are what one should be looking for.
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We thank guest blogger Joan Baker who created this blog.
The girlfriend experience (GFE) includes the whole thing ie kissing, talking, hugging, dining, being intimate or any other “girlfriend type” service sought by the client. A porn star experience is more of an erotic fantasy ie like it is in the porn films. The hobbyist (client) will have a preference, however, the most popular is the GFE. Stimulating conversation and connecting with the client to make them feel special is the true value of this experience. Wining and dining and being “loved” with both parties contribuing; makes for a successdul experience. Some clients will even bring flowers and chocolates to their date to further enhance the whole experience. A true cosy affaire. Even travelling together or going on exotic holidays can also be part of the GFE. Many London Escorts are high class travelling companions who glide through the globe at ease on these adventures. Appearing in public together ie going to the movies, shows, dinner etc and most likely retiring to the bedroom later is an enjoyable encounter for all.
So why would a man be a partron to an Escort for GFE? He wants to feel accepted. She will be non judgemental. When he walks through the door she gives him all her attention, no matter what age or how he looks. He is guaranteed to be part of someones attention for a set period of time. Another reason he may see an Escort is that he is very busy with work and cannot concieve dating in the traditional sense in his life at the moment. He has no time but wants a quick fulfilling encounter, without strings attached. He may not want the entanglement of a real relationship, with an Escort, he is paying her to not contact him again. However, he can always contact her. This sounds a bit sad and cold but suits both parties. It is a kind of arrangement. The Escort is selling her interest in the client for a set period of time. She is interested in everything he says, whether she agrees or not. She is pressing her acting skills to the depths of her soul. Some are very good at this, others really have to learn. However it is played out, the outcome should be everybody leaves the encounter satisfied.
This Video is worth a watch!
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There are quite a few books on the art of escorting out there that claim to teach you how to do the job, get more customers and market yourself. Of course, going into this profession blindly is silly; one needs to get ones’ head around the work, be able to deal with the mental and physical demands, manage clients and be fervent about safety in terms of personal health and when in risky situations.
Key in the search term “London escorts” into any large search engine such as Amazon and a whole list of books appears, ranging in titles about the smutty side of the industry to the elite high priced call girls. There are diaries, girl next door books, male escort memoires, and falls from grace, the jetsetters, intimate secrets, undercover tales, erotic advisory books and the more business like how to market oneself. Some give factual straight forward advice on the industry about how to manage, others are memoires and others part fiction part real. ‘Historical’ is also a genre within this mix and includes writings on courtesans and high society complex liaisons through time. Reading about other escorts’ experiences can be invigorating, insightful and of great practical use. Nobody wakes up in the morning and knows how to be an escort. Nobody really knows until they do it. And do it and do it…
If wading through literature on the subject, best to look for a book that provides a candid look at the profession. One that will give practical advice and a step by step approach to marketing oneself in the profession. Looking at the emotional and practical concerns that a newbie might encounter will be useful to know. Choosing a book written by an escort for escorts would be the best choice.
Edible undies first came to light in the 1970′s when they were seen as an amusing and ‘je ne sais quoi’ pleasure. Intimate play had now become more fun with gourmet adding licking and teasing to the bedroom. Now sold in lingerie and adult stores, edible lingerie is often purchased in conjunction with other edible items such as body sauce and other body candy eateries. Underwear for both men and women can be molded in this way, packaged and boxed within the lingerie shelves. These delectable delights can be made of rice paper, fruit cheweys and string candy. Basically candy that can be molded when hot and then set in an undies shape and allowed to cool. The fruit flavored candy is then stretchable and is wearable when cool. But possibly not very comfortable or tasty for that matter. It shouldn’t be worn for very long, put it on eat it off kind of thing, otherwise it could all be a bit unhygienic.
And then there is edible body powder and body paint. From vanilla to cherry to watermelon flavors, these “hide in your bottom drawer don’t tell anyone” products could spice up intimacy or they could kill it. One can make themselves into a work of art by brushing their body with soft stokes of flavored paints and powders. Surely having the smell of chocolate or strawberries on ones’ skin isn’t an aphrodisiac? unlike perfume or aftershave. Will sweetening up the bedroom add to or be the foreplay? These smells may only trigger one partner to depart to the kitchen and start preparing a snack. Body glazes and body sprays are also available. So are kissable shimmering and glistening powders. Some of these will have a seductive scent, especially the body powders as opposed to the underwear made of food. There are even glow in the dark body paints for those of us who want to run around in the dark and play games. This last one will probably only draw giggles and annoyance in the bedroom. Tasty massage oils and lotions complete the kit. Bon appetit!
With Valentines Day coming up tomorrow, some of us will be at a loss as to how to deal with the day. Those of us that are single will dismiss it as a load of commerical hype or completely be unaware of the day. Valentines day is just another day to some. Wheras those of us that are in relationships may expect things from the other and await with baited breath to see what the other has conjured up as an appreciation of their feeling for us. For some, it is a nuisance, making those of us who wouldnt normally be bothered, buy a gift for our other half. For others, it is laced with fun, joy and romance, where we cannot wait to show our affection for the other.
As one trolls through the internet asking the question “what do men want for valentines day?”, the answer is that rather than getting chocolates or teddy bears they would rather a day of fooling around in the bedroom. Some women want this also but its significantly less than what men want as a ‘gift’ on this particular day. Other possible gifts for men include a beer cooler, tickets to his favourite sporting event, a years subscription to a porn site, a months subscription to his fav gym or weight training club, a threesome with an escort (with you joining), a haircut gift token, a gift card to his favourite clothes shop, flying lessons etc. But sometimes guys are not that bothered with gifts. Possibly, the gifts of spontaneity, passion, romance, kisses and a home cooked meal are all thats needed on this day. Same goes for women.
And “what do women want for Valentines day?” Not for their partner to forget them. Expensive gifts are not necessary. Things to avoid are frilly thongs, sex toys, a bunch of daisies from the tuck stop, a teddy bear (unless you know she likes them), a box of candy (so cliche), underwear and heart shaped gifts of any kind (so dah!). Possible gifts for women include a day or a few hours at a local spa, ie getting her hair and nails done etc., a home cooked meal and actually wishing her a happy valentines. Also a bit of romance (a very expensive bunch of roses is accepted here) and relaying your true feelings can cement what would be just another day, into a really special one. For most, on Valentines Day, a sweet gesture is all that is needed. No need for big money spends.
Whatever you do on Valentines Day 2014, try to make the other feel amazing…
Its funny the escorting world, it seems to have adopted its own terms and ways of thinking. Rarely, maybe never, is the word ‘women’ used in agency adverts. For example its never “women available etc” or ‘which woman would you like to see?’, its always “girls available” or ‘what girl whould you like to see?’ etc. Escorts are always referred to as ‘girls’, even mature ones. Why?
According to the dictionary, the word ‘girl’ is synomonous with a young unmarried immature woman. Obviously, in society, the word “girl” can refer to a woman of any age. And according to the dictionary the word ‘woman’ is defined as an adult female person. It seems the word ‘girl’ signifies youth and someone who will be agreeable, whereas the word ‘woman’ may signify someone who has matured mentally and not so connected with the word “youth”, no matter what her age. A ‘woman’ will be more independent, know what she wants and won’t take crap basically. The word ‘woman’ can imply someone who is grown up and cannot be persuaded easily. The word ‘girl’ may signify someone who is more amenable and may be easily persuaded. There may be no age difference between a female refered to as a ‘gir’l and one referred to as a ‘woman’, but in the escorting world there is.
Will the client be put off by the word ‘woman’ as opposed to the word ‘girl’. Will he think he will get more than he’s bargained for? Quite possibly, as these two words imply different things. But this is just a state of mind. Agencies want to be seen as “youthful, fresh and full of energy” and using the word ‘women’ may not imply this. Its a competitive industry so branding escorting services with terms so as to make the client not intimidated and completely as ease is critical for business. However, Independent escorts are more likely to describe themselves as women in their introductory pages and blogs. For male escorts for women, the term “boy” isn’t used, unless in the gay market. On these sites it is “guy” or “man”, signifying someone mature.
Of course all escorts are ‘women’, its just funny how they are rarely described this way…
There is much debate on how alcohol affects the sexes. If a woman is already feeling horny, taking a drink can most likely amplify this feeling of arousal. But the feeling has to be there in the first place. It won’t actually make one horny but it will make the horniness express itself more! Alcohol most likely stimulates the body and makes one more open-minded, but too much can impair judgment. Because of society and culture, one has inhibitions, so alcohol just makes these inner feelings flow easily. There is also the environment that one is in, i.e. in the company of a potential mate is different to being alone in one’s bed drinking. But over doing it can make a lady a sluggish drunk. For guys, it may make them not be able to perform, and, being a slobbering fool can really turn anybody off. But all guys are affected differently by alcohol. However, for both genders, drinking can increase the expression of libido or make one useless. So in moderation alcohol can add spice, but only if taken in small amounts.
However, to enjoy intimacy, one needs to be mentally lively and alert. Too much drinking can make one less able to be in control sexually and because of this can decrease enjoyment. Looking at other consequences of drinking, some people may have different personalities when drinking, sadly some become violent and others just start singing! So alcohol may just increase a person’s mood that’s’ there already. Be it good or bad. With alcohol less is definitely more.
She would be…
Probably not what you will get…but thats the fantasy anyway
Although pole dancing has mainly been associated with strip clubs, in recent times it has gained a reputation as an excellent form of fitness and acrobatic art. Like gymnastics and aerobics, it works the body to be graceful, flexible and have excellent strength. It is now considered part of a mainstream fitness art with qualifications and courses in dance schools being commonplace. Many competitions are held worldwide. It is readily promoted as a non-sexual performance art. Professional pole dancing requires incredible strength, stamina, intense training and flexibility. A pole dance performance uses different climbs, spins and body inversions. It is described as an aerial dance with many dance studios offering classes. This form of fitness can be enjoyable and invigorating, and is a fun alternative to mainstream gym workouts for both men and women. Although, pole dancing has traditionally been a feminine pursuit, many men now incorporate pole dancing as part of their fitness regime.
In the 1920’s pole dancing was used in circus acts. Somehow, in the 1980’s it was combined with burlesque dance and then moved to being part of striptease acts. As part of the strip tease act, the performer may not perform acrobatics to the standard associated with real pole dancing, but use the pole as a prop to swing and jive around on stage. In strip clubs and some gentlemen’s clubs, poles are often just used as visual aids, around which, an erotic dance is performed nude or semi-clothed. In the 1990’s, pole dancing started to be promoted as a fitness performance art and has increased in popularity since then. Perception may always classify pole dancing as being associated with an erotic environment, but that is only perception.
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Tantric massage is described as a whole body erotic massage. Warm oils, candles and relaxing music, together with loving hands and body contact make this a complete ecstatic experience for the recipient. It is an all over body massage to bring the recipient to complete relaxation. It is a full erotic massage carried out by a therapist trained in this art. Specialized breathing techniques bring about physical sensations and arousal. Kundalini is intended to be stimulated. Kundalini is a kind of energy that is supposed to be lying dormant at the base of the spine, in a coil like position. In modern times, Kundalini has been likened to the unconscious. The awakening of this unconscious can lead to spiritual enlightenment. This force is said to move up and down the central channel of the body. This awakening stems from yoga and is heightened through chanting and meditation.
The massage includes gentle strokes all over the body and may involve a prostate massage. This type of massage can also be done between two partners as part of intimacy. The intimate female erotic massage part is called the Yoni and the male the Lingam. A sensual tantric massage may involve male or female arousal and sexual release, but this is not the aim of the tantric massage. The main purpose is to heighten one’s sexual energy, to bring about healing and well being and to restore balance to the chakras within the body. The true experience empowers the feminine or masculine soul as a whole. As Kundalini moves up through each chakra, it brings one to a higher level of consciousness that is then integrated in daily life.
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Glasses can make a girl seem knowledgeable and sophisticated, which can be attractive as these traits are also related to being self assure and independent. Covering the eyes can make one seem mysterious and others may want to find out more. Glasses can really add to mystery. Removing them occassionally to the bridge of the nose to reveal sexy smouldering eye makeup can really arouse and add to a really attractive ensemble. Specs on a girl can elude thoughts of the nice girl, brainy, shy and studious one. Being with the sexy teacher or secretary are all hidden fantasies some guys harbour. Being a smart girl nerd will always turn heads for some. Well, this is part of the fantasy anyway. But she may just really need glasses to see…
Unlike days gone by, there are now very fashionable specs out there, whether one needs them or not. Almost all the big high street names have put their name to producing stylish and trendy glasses available at opticians. They are a must fashion accessory, from hippy colored frames to the barely there rimless. Being four eyes is popular. For those too scared to get Lasik or having touble with contacts, there is now a really sexy alternative. If specs are worn as a fashion accessory and part of good hair, make up and clothing styles they can really really be a great look. Of course wearing glasses with no make up on, greasy hair and sweatpants probably won’t pull off the same look. The idea is to be hot and sexy so it may make take a lot of effort in other areas to make this so. It also depends on how confident the person wearing them is. Wearing glasses may not enable one to look at the world in a rose colored way, but they surely may help make one’s interactions more interesting.
And most women find glasses on men super hot too!
‘Escorting’ can take a lot of personal adjustment and change to be successful. However, the ‘people skills’ required for this occupation can be the same as those when working in any other environment. Having the X factor or at least learning how to show it can make one feel empowered and make things go smoother. Look at successful leaders…they know how to make the other feel like the most important person in the world. This, as history has shown, can have good and bad repercussions. Concentrating on the positive, there is a general agreement on how one should behave in order to be successful at almost anything. This is immensely applicable to the area of ‘escorting’ as this is one of the most ‘people person’ professions out there.
Generally having all the everlasting attractive social traits embodies the word ‘charismatic.’ Charismatic can include enchanting, awe inspiring, sexually enticing, engrossing and enthralling, to name but a few. These are the people that possess us and keep us wanting more from them. If one is not born like this, one can at least be aware of how to learn to apply these traits to manage situations in their favor.
There are many different qualities to being a charming companion but one of the most applicable is the ability to make people like you. Liking yourself is a good start. Others usually follow suit and will like you too. Physical gestures and body language include smiling, being easy, not being overtly emotional and leaving your ego at the door. It needs to be mostly about the other person when escorting, the world has to revolve around them, whether or not it really does. The escort needs to be a good listener. To be able apprehend and take in all the tribulations of the other. To mix these up with a good response to be the perfect societal individual. To go into the others’ world so that time spent really is a ‘time out’ for them. Being humorous, giving complements and being utterly attractive are good to have as well…
Select High Class would like to thank our sponsors and twitter followers over the past year. We have enjoyed displaying a diverse range of advertisements of our sponsors. We have been running for almost two years now and hope to bring our business into the new year with every success. We have a re-designed and updated site with more traffic being established every day. We have much web interest in our site with listings ranging from international to local. We aim to further establish ourselves in 2014 as one of the the best High Class Directories.
We hope that 2013 was unforgettable with many fond memories to look back on. Everybody will be thinking of new year resolutions once tonights’ fireworks and festivities have died down. But what to change? Go to the gym. Don’t eat sweets. Move away. Get a better job. Give more to charity. Well at least its hope for a change. Things can get very tired after the Xmas and a fresh start is on everybody’s mind. The new year is the time for everybody to feel feeling awake, out with the old and in with the new.
“Although no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” by Carl Bard
The snow seems to have stayed away at the moment, but according to the weather forecast and some reports, it is expected to be a white Christmas. There is also a forecast of gales and heavy rain. And blizzards. But with only a few days to go, its not really that cold at the moment. Yesterday (21st December) marked the winter solstice, ie the shortest day of the year. It marked the beginning of winter. But on the bright side…the days will be getting longer from now on.
Booking an Escort companion over the holiday season can make an unforgettable memory for some, especially those that are travelling or mostly on their own this year. Most of us will have broken up for the holidays or are attending the last few office parties. Bringing an Escort girl to your party can be a solution for those at a loss for a ‘plus one’ this year. Celebrating with the perfect social companion will make for some very festive fun and can lighten the heart…this is one way to celebrate with a sexy partner this Christmas.
With much going on over the festive season in the capital, it can be hard to chose what to do. A must see are the lights in the west end. There is also the magical winter experience ice rink at one of the city’s best known museums and the winter wonderland at Hyde park. There are also Christmas markets all over the city from the Barbican to Berwick Street. The theatre and the arts have much ado at Christmas time this year and the west end is packed with jolly productions. However, for some, things have settled down as they are now with their loved ones and are anticipating the TV programes and clocking up on mince pies and brandy butter. Whatever you are doing this year, we wish you a Merry Christmas and hope 2014 will bring the best.
Glamour photography is usually done to attract or arouse the viewer and the model is usually semi-clothed or can be nude. These images are used in magazines to sell products, lingerie or just to attract for some marketing reason. Glamour photography can be for personal use only and includes boudoir pictures that can have a more natural look. Escort photography is no different from glamour photography. Escort photography has now become a genre in its own right. There are specialist photographers that offer this type of photo session only.
The commodity sold in escort photography is the model herself. These photographs need to be highly professional to stand out from all the hundreds and thousands of others on the internet. Escorting is such a big business now that there are certain ways a model should pose to accentuate her features, clothes to wear or not, makeup, hair and the finale of the airbrush! A good studio escort photographer will be able to advise on how best to do this. What props to use, how to pose, what makeup and hair styles to have will all be with the help of the photographer or studio assistant. However, the real feel of the photos can only come from the model herself and only she will be able to expose her spirit in such a way to best captivate her audience.
Hopefully, it is understood that nobody really looks as captivating in real life as glamour photographs sometimes portray them; the idea is to sell a fantasy. Not that its right to be totally misleading, but a good likeness is a must. There are many models that look better in real like than they do in their photographs. When meeting the person in real life other things like personality, services provided and connections all come out. The photographs are just the shell before the meeting.
If the pictures could speak they need to say all they can. What lingerie and dresses are worn and how the atmosphere is captured can say ‘cheap’ or ‘classy’. Most viewers want the latter. The pictures should be friendly, approachable, alluring, and attractive with some mystery attached. They don’t need to show everything, although some may. They should elicit a kind of fantasy and desire in the viewers’ mind that makes them want to meet that person. Part of the escort experience is the excitement before the meet. However, the photos should have some honesty to them, i.e. a true likeness of the model and not obviously faked. The viewer, before they meet the model in the pictures, must feel as if they are going to see a special person who has an aura about herself and portrays herself in a manner that is beguiling, slightly bewitching with a touch of magic. Mystery mixed with honesty is the key to the best snaps. Not too much salt and not too much pepper. Just deliciously editable; those are the kinds of pictures that will make the phone ring.
Foot fetishism is a pronounced interest in the feet. It can be sexual or non-sexual. Sexual is where one feels arousal when around or touching the feet and non-sexual is where one is just feels pleasure from what they perceive as the beauty of the feet. For a foot fetish, the shape of the foot, toes, arch of the ankle and state of dress of the foot are part of the attraction. Painted toes and wearing of foot jewelry all adds to the excitement. Even the smell of the feet can be a turn on. This fetishism is often received with disbelief or general amusement. For those of us not interested in the feet, its hard to understand why someone would be. However, foot worship is one of the most common fetishes, if not the top one. Even though foot worship is common, there are no definite statistics stating how many of us love the feet. Most “footsies” are male but can be female.
Most men do enjoy women’s legs and feet are just an extension of this. We all enjoy each other’s body parts and there is nothing wrong with having wider interests in this area. During a reflexology session the different parts of the feet correspond to the different parts of the body. So it makes sense for one to stimulate the body senses in this same way during intimate encounters as well; the feet can be the center of arousal for the giver and the receiver of the foot massage or whatever attention is bestowed on them. Most women love having their feet massaged so this venture can be mutually pleasurable for both parties.
This fetish has a good community vibe. One can meet other “footsies” online, there are dating sits out there for everything and everyone and foot worship lovers is no different. On these sites one can find other foot lovers. There are even foot fetish webcams to who can perform for you. But what about a girl whom you are interested in and you don’t know? If starting to date or in a relationship it is best to test the waters, see how she reacts to her feet being kissed etc. If this results in a slightly negative reaction from her, best to do things slowly and as part of the intimacy between you and her. Blurting out on your first date that you are a “foot fetish” may see her heading for the door.
There is the view that this is not really a “fetish” and shouldn’t be termed as one. It is just an adoration for a body part, like liking big boobs or a sexy bum. We don’t call these fetishes, so why term one that is interested in feet a “foot fetish”? Possibly because it is a little out of the ordinary, meaning that in society the feet are not generally stereotyped as a sexual part of the female anatomy, at least not in a strong sense. There is certainly no harm in having a strong attraction for a body part that is crucial for us to getting around on this planet.
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As Select High Class will soon have listings for male escorts, we thought we would dip into this topic.
Why would a woman book a Male Escort?
Not quite the same reason as to why a male may book a female escort but in some cases it is similiar. A male may solely book a female escort for physical reasons. It seems to be very cut and clear what men want. But what do women want? More. Whilst it is also true for ladies to book for intimacy, most times, this is not the case. Fundamentally, a woman may book a male escorts genuinely as an ‘escort’. She will book for longer hours and will usually include an evening out or dinner date or overnight. She may hire one of the male escorts to escort her to a wedding, a day at the races, a dinner with friends where she is genuinely without a partner. Not just an hour “quickie”. More ofden, the escort will meet her friends socially and will have to “play” out the role of boyfriend. Intimate relations may not be involved. He will have to be a good listener, be caring, sensitive and charming. And he will have to have no ego! It will have to be all about her. A woman booking one of the male escorts would be older, wealthy and spend on the higher class male escort. She won’t book a cheaper one, otherwise she may not book one at all. She is not looking for instant cheap gratification. She is looking to feel special, good about herself and indulged in. Not all escorts would be able to do this. It takes a certain kind of manner and social skill. She will book one of the london male escorts who is at the very least 30 years of age, most likely older, suited and distinguished. Enjoy the vids!
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The escort business always seems to be booming. Just type in any related keywords to this industry and a long list of agencies and directories come up. The business can be lucrative but requires a significant investment. Escort agencies need a huge down payment before starting to make any mark. There are certain areas that make things more cost effective i.e the cheaper market. Providing a cheaper escort service will get the calls coming in. However, there is a niche for all markets ie the high class elite escorts, mature escorts, cheap escorts, Indian escorts and of course the domination/fetish ones. The escort industry must be turning over millions if not billions each year. But there isn’t very much information on this business on the web or elsewhere, not stats or real data figures. The only way to measure things up is to look at the various agencies and directories and calculate how much they could be making. Just by observing the web, the figures add up to an extraodinary figure in this business. It’s a wonder it is not on the stock exchange. But then the legal and moral struggles of people hush it out of sight. It seems like it is a caged industry. Some will say it is disgusting and others will think it a great business.
A caged world with a devilish darkness; this seems to forever pervail the escort industry. It is a still very secret way of life for some. As long as everything is legal why isn’t it more mainstream? It will always be there and everything being legal, it is still rolling in the dollars. This debate could go on forever, its all got to do with morality, religion, upbringing and social norms. Something so basic to the human need, ie the company and often (intimacy) of another, can be looked at with such distain, simply because money is involved. Isn’t it worse to fool or seduce someone into making them think you actually like them, just for physical gain? When money is involved there are no broken hearts. In life, we do all give and receive in various ways. This one just happens to involve money.
It is no secret that men and women think differently. Obvious reasons are biological. Nature has played it out this way. Because of the procreation of the species, there are different inherent roles to be played out by both sexes. Men are more solution orientated, this is because from the beginning of time they were the “hunters gathers” and needed to provide for their families for all to survive. Women were more about bringing up the children so developed a nurturing and caring nature. But this is not the case today, we do not have hunters, caves or the like. But the instinctual feeling are still there in all of us and have put us in a constant flux with one another.
Women and men both think they are right and very logical in their ways of thinking but don’t rationalise that their partner might also be right. There are no right and no wrong answers, just a kind of murky grey that prevails, and, we have to get through it somehow. And so we have come this far. We have built a very beautiful and successful world to date. We have journed through the centuries as a kind of collaborated team, attaining many loving relationships with each other on the way. So why do men and women get irritated with each other? We do get very excited with each other sometimes and when feelings are there its all heavenly, but outside of that there are some moments of “he/she dosn’t understand me”. There are many self help books on the topic, even seminars and workshops.
But the best way could be by learning from experience, developing empathy and respect over the years. Sometimes taking a step back, going out for a walk or having a few moments alone from your dear one will solve the problem. But the most successful way of prolonging a relationship might be to become hapy within oneself, through either achieving of goals, monetary or otherwise or a change in lifestyle. If one is completely happy within themselves, there is very little chance they will be unhappy with another.
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“No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won’t make you cry.”
“Just because someone dosn’t love you the way you want them to, dosn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.”
“A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.”
“The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can’t have them.”
“Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.”
“To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.”
“Don’t waste your time on a man/woman, who isn’t willing to waste their time on you.”
“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”
Copyright: to whoever wrote these beautiful lyrics
If you know that a client has reviewed other escorts and is now considering seeing you, isn’t he a safe bet. Because he has reviewed others, he most definately hasn’t robbed or assaulted them – (that’s looking at the extreme), he would most likely be ok, we are not talking about a polite “catering to your every whim gentleman” but he would most likely be ok. Especially if he has seen other escort companions as well. He knows what to expect and has experience. If the website he does reviews on has counter reviews – i.e where escorts can review clients, then all the better. Everybody can then feel a little safer. You know the client wont’ be ultra nervous or extremely shy of seeing you as he has seen other escorts before you. A clients who reviews may well be the perfect client.
And then there is your marketing. A few good reviews can give an indication of your service, and, if favourable can propel you above others as regards bookings. Just one good review can do a lot. Really, reviews are just saying “she is ok”, they are not supposed to be ultra graphic (although some are) or demeaning to you… but they should be viewed as subjective, one clients deliciouscrumpet is another clients “not so good crumpet”. Not everybody will have the exact same opinion with meeting someone, as another person would. Life is grey…………………………………………………
So why wounldn’t you want a review? This is a moral whirlpool. Reviews can give the impression that women are objects and takes the human aspect away. Few will think this way, but most will not. Most clients have the intelligence and social skills to respect people no matter what has been written about them or their gender. But what people think (clients and escorts alike) – does it really matter? At the end of the day it is just a business transaction, and as long as there is not a crime being committed, and, all are reasonably polite to each other then its nobody’s business.
Seems to be. There seems to be a lull in the escort market at the moment. Nobody wants to pay the high prices. For some £200 is a crazy price to pay for 1 hour of an escorts’ time, even £150 is too much. This is not true, £200 is a very reasonable for a London Escort. There are high advertising costs associated with the higher prices. However, the problem is that there are some very cheap escort services offering outcalls, for example, for £110 or less. This makes it very hard for others to earn money. There are some very inexpensive agencies out there with stunning girls on their books. And showing their faces, from english to mature to ebony. The range is infinite. Who to choose? What do you get if you pay the higher priced agencies?
Some clients even want half hours or try to negotiate on prices. In years gone by, it was fairly easy for an escort to earn £250 incall and £300 outcall, today this is very difficult. It can be earned, of course, but not as frequently. There are still the well off clients who will pay these prices. And more. There are sites out there like AW, for example, that have a very variable range of prices, some very very cheap. And for all kinds of services. There are loads of different types of escorts; the influx of eastern european girls in the past 5 years has toughened up the competition.
Everything is now affordable, there is no set rate for escorting services, if you want cheap you can get cheap. Cheap dosn’t necessarily mean that the service is the same as a higher priced London Escort. There may be hidden extra payments required for extra services. But this may not be the case. One has to do research and look at reviews. Not sure how escort prices differ globally, but is probably the same, cheap up to the extreme end wherever you search. But one thing is for sure, the market is changing. The client wants cheaper and there will always be a service provider out there who will match this expectation.
So, you don’t want your work colleagues to know you have booked an escort during your lunch break…and are currently trying to calculate the quickest way to get to her Kensington incall. There is no shame, but why do your fingers dice the computer keyboard like it is electricity everytime a work colleague edges themselves towards you? This is your shameful activity, and, you should be ashamed. Booking an escort…eerch. You don’t want to be found out, there is that fear…then all your credibility with your work colleagues is may be gone one day if they find out…forever…you can never look them in the eye again. Or maybe they will admire it, they might not have the guts to book an escort, that is cahorting with the jazabels of society. But you must do this, you have been thinking about this for weeks and getting very excited in the process. You have to. You have to let go and unwind, unrobe and un – whatever else your escort companion will do for you. It is a fact of life. Life might be boring at home, you are a singleton, shy, want some, or just fancy a bit. You need to look “not guilty” when you come back from lunch or come to work the next day, after having visited the escort. You need to appear normal, as if you wouldn’t ever do such a thing. Or you may be the other way, you may have discussed this exciting and dangerous part of life with your buddies and they know you are going for it!. Maybe you all discuss it together…do men gossip about such or brag or just tell it as it is? Would they tell each other? Is it something one may tell one’s buddies… that is, that they called an escort? No matter what way you paint it, people will always look at you twice if you tell them you visited an escort. Like you did something wrong.
There are many hook up or dating apps out there, where you can meet singles close to you via your mobile phone or tablet. Those on adult dating sites can find an intimate partner quick and easy. Whether it’s a fling or something more permanent these apps can provide these opportunities for those seeking to meet someone. With these apps users can speak to each other by phone or text annomyously. Men and women can easily select their types and preferences. Gone are the days of traditional online dating and dating agencies and loveletters! Gone are the days of going out to bars in the hope of meeting somebody or of having to have a drink just to talk to the lady or gentleman of ones dreams. Anybody can flirt with anybody through one of the top dating apps. There are no awkard ego deflaters. Anyone can break the ice. Apps like TrueFlirt and AroundMe are very popular. There are apps that are targeted more towards the adult market or sex dating, and, those of a more traditional dating scene that are looking for a relationship. Some apps link with facebook and twitter profiles. The dating app industry is a very lucrative market; millions are spent, there are millions of members and millions are made. The dating app market is expected to grow exponentially over the next few years, traditional dating sites may be on their way out. Portable technology can now connect women and men based on their GPS coordinates. Apps can be downloaded to manage one’s dating life. People can more easily now get over their ex if they have a distracting stream of lovelies on their iphone expressing an interest in them. Technology is now moving way fast forward for singles.
Even though it is extremely hot, things are been reported as being a bit quiet at the moment on the escort front. Usually. good weather attracts the clients to liaise with escorts and brings with it a desire to be be close to others. There are many reasons why business could be down.
There is always an escort who will do things cheaper out there. We are just plateauing after a recession and still coming out of the back end of it, so resources are still tight for some clients. If a 150 escort looks as pretty as a 500 escort and with similiar reviews it is a no brainer! Some clients want a quick time, in and out, so what exactly is 500 or more for? Not knocking it but one has to be sensible. There are more girls, especially the influx of eastern european ones that have arrived here over the last few years. This makes the competition in the market so much tougher. Back to prices, there are escort agencies who will send escorts for 110 or cheaper. So what to do? Keep the prices as you feel comfortable but advertise more. Be out there.One needs to stand out. Some clients won’t consider seeing an escort unless she has reviews, one needs to get on Captain 69, TER etc. Paying extra for a front page or primary page listing should be done if one can afford it. One should be on them all and have a great personal website. Offering half hours should be considered if one needs to. Getting the best photos, and showing ones face is always preferable but with other assets like good reviews, one dosn’t always need to show their face.
If a client likes an escort and she is in “central london” he won’t mind travelling as all areas in the centre are fairly accessible via tubes and taxis. Moving out of central london is a little harder; there might not be so much traffic in these areas or people or they may not be so accessible. And even if a client lives in the outskirts of London, is it always easy for him to get to the centre. There are of course the hotspots in the city like Paddington. This station serves a lot of tube and train connections. But renting here is very expensive. If one is getting enough work and is very popular well great, but another alternative is to rent a serviced apartment if one can’t afford to live in the centre. But if you rent a serviced apartment, like renting a real apartment, you have to get clients, otherwise it’s a waste of money. But one could live a bit out and have an incall in a place like in Fulham, Islington etc. There are clients in all areas. The incall apartment must be near a tube station and be fairly easy to get to.
Unfortunately things like age, ethnicity, fluency in english, services offered, accommodation and look will factor in on how popular the escort is. But clients do have preferences so there is work for all but there is a stereotype. Marketing oneself for a niche market can have its rewards, for example, mature, domination, asian escorts – these are niche markets and do attract a valuable market.