May 07

Is escorting a real job?

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by blog mistress

Bit like a therapist, one might say, the escort lady needs to have very good listening and verbal communication skills.

The job-like qualities of being a london escort are:

  • there is a start and finish time
  • one needs to kinda wear a uniform (of sorts!), sexy lingerie most ofden required
  • one needs to present themselves at their best, ie makeup and hair done
  • excellent communication skills i.e non verbal body language and direct verbal skills, this is necessary for any job
  • one earns money doing it, the escorts rate is set, i.e a kin to a salary
  • travelling may be involved for outcalls, i.e like a real job that might involve travelling
  • one needs a CV (of sorts!), i.e online profile photos and information on escort services provided
  • the escort girl might declare her earnings and apply for a mortgage like a real job
  • like the recession, no job is safe and escorting is no exception, there are quiet times and busy times
  • being professional at all times can make this job rewarding and safe

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Apr 28

London Escorts as temporary girlfriends?

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by blog mistress

Want some female company and not willing to go through the whole dating regime? Well, you may just figure that one of the London lovelies on the Internet are just the ticket for a relaxing and pleasurable time. You may be surprised to learn that more than often people do hire female companions as a viable alternative to spending the evening alone and watching the sun set and then going to bed alone!Whether you are up looking for Asian babes, eastern European Baltic lovelies or all American girl next door type escorts, you can rest assured that there will someone out there for you on the Internet that you can spend your time with in this dreary UK weather at the moment. Things will surely pick up with spring on it’s way. We hope!

Anyway, the market is booming at the moment with the escort industry. It is a very normal way to meet someone as one may not have time out of their hectic work schedule to consider going Internet dating or even speed dating to fine someone for some temporary company. With escorts, they can be at your door within the hour or you at her incall at a time that suits you. It is all very convenient and one of the best practice alternative ways of hiring escort services providers today. It is safe, secure and reliable. And nobody knows, you can ask the lady to leave and then get on with the rest of your life in total harmony.

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Apr 26

How to be a good london escort…part III

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london escorts

by blog mistress

  • it is what it is, just a job, all be it a very different and intangible one
  • smile a lot, dosn’t do any harm, even if its a fake smile :) , people do it every day in their jobs
  • if something feels odd it probably is, but experience will tell you how to differentiate harmless oddness from actual danger, something that can only be learned from experience
  • remember you hare selling blocks of your time, not any physical services, “your time is only for sale –  you do services for free”
  • mental energy needs to be replenished so don’t see too many clients in one go or you will get burnout
  • again, mental energy so needs to be balanced, refresh yourself with holidays and breaks frequently
  • remember you are just a human being, and not some fantastical porn star angel on the internet so if something is
    mentally too challenging don’t go there
  •  when taking telephone calls have boundaries, be polite and thank them for their call, if they are rude hang up
  • escorting should only be a stop gap and not a career, save up for a better life and secure a future if you can

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Apr 05

How to be a good london escort…part II

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by blog mistress

  • have an air of easiness and genuineness as regards your conduct
  • respect to the  client and his surroundings, if at a social function, blend in naturally so he dosn’t feel awkward
  • always greet him firstly as Mr. so and so, then by his first name after that
  • some clients may push the boundaries, explain to him in a very tactful way what is acceptable
  • have humour, laugh and joke – this usually relieves tension
  • again – have a sense of humour, client has visited you to have fun so  laughter takes away any seriousness
  • when taking the money from client, count discretely and fast so as to take the “business atmosphere” away from the meeting
  • if you really don’t want to do something don’t, but have this explained to the client before the meeting
  • obviously speaking about personal details and your name is forbidden, avoid this tactfully
  • same goes for clients, don’t ask them too personal questions, unless they tell you firstly
  • never do anything that is at risk to your health, if the client persists with this, ask him to leave
  • if you have a security person at your incall, make sure there is no background noise coming from another room or voices heard
  • find out about parking for the client and advise of any unforeseen travelling problems he may encounter
  • don’t answer the door in lingerie, best to wear an evening dress, as otherwise it may put clients off
  • it’s just business, so don’t bring memories of clients home with you

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Apr 02

How to be a good london escort…part I

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london escort, london escorts

by blog mistress

Pretty much common sense but things to bear in mind…

  • remember the client is paying you to be his girlfriend, so tuning in to the clients needs in a friendly way is a must
  • sexy sexy lingerie is always good
  • confidence, confidence and more confidence, a client will be more at ease seeing someone who knows what they want and happy to reciprocate
  • discretion, if you go into hotels, suggest wearing a hat and or sunglasses even though it might be midnight, go straight for the lifts, never linger around reception unless this client has made this arrangement with you beforehand. Find out whether you need a key card to get into the lift before visiting the client. Wear everyday normal clothes, nothing to draw attention.
  • emphatise with the client, maybe he wants to talk and has nobody to listen to him
  • compliment him in a way that seems genuine, some clients maybe looking for more of a therapeutic or bonding session with a woman than just services
  • always supply drinks and facilities
  • don’t wear very strong perfume as it may rub off on the client and he may be in trouble later
  •  act and be as if you have known him for a while and be very friendly
  • put him at ease, no clinical automated moves, discretely clock watch – put on alarm 10 mins before you are due to finish so he is reminded of this so there is no sudden rush, he may then get ready to leave or extend his time with you
  • age, culture and religious beliefs should have no influence on your behaviour to the client
  • if he is overtly aggressive and you think something is off ask him to leave, if it’s only a few mins into the meeting give some of the money back, whatever you see is fit and fair and for the time he has spent with you

more later

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